So, you are getting married. Congratulations!
Before the wedding it feels like your life after marriage will be just perfect. It feels like things will change for the better and the best after marriage and you’ll live in heaven. While all that is true to an extent, it is important that you understand that there are pitfalls as well.
The fact is that not many women even realize that there may be hardships even after tying the knot. These things come as a surprise to them and that is why they can’t handle it. Fights, anger, misunderstandings, and tears become more common. To avoid all this, we are here to get you prepared for what’s going to come up:
- After marriage you will work much harder than before. Yes, it is true. Once you get married you will work really, really hard. Keep in mind that this includes being patient when he annoys you with his habits. Remember that there are some things about you that he dislikes as well. Marriage indeed takes work and you should be willing to put in the required effort.
- After marriage you’ll go to bed fuming more often. People say that you shouldn’t go to bed angry but once you tie the knot, this will happen. Also, they say that sleep cures the pain and makes you feel better. After the big day, you may actually wake up angrier. Be prepared.
- After marriage you can’t always want things to go your way. That won’t always happen. When you are living together, making things work together is much more important than ensuring that everything goes your way. Put your ego aside and remember that you are not always right and he is not always wrong.