Breaking up is a horrible feeling. It sucks. There is just no other way to describe that feeling. However, chances are high that you will be dumped or will dump. Being on either side of the table is no fun.
If you have recently broken up and are finding a hard time to cope with it, we have tips that will help you:
- Accept it: The only way you can move on is to accept that feeling and that emptiness. Breaking up is no different from death. It is the death of a relationship and you may get over it the same way – through acceptance. Initially, it is okay to remember the good things that happened and to cry how much ever you want to.
- Cut off all contact for real: Absence will help you cool off and start looking at different aspects of life. You need to get away from it all sometimes. Stop going online, stop chatting, and stop taking calls. Your emotions are not in your control when you breakup. You will take desperate measures to get back to them during these times, which is why absence is recommended.
- Be honest even if it hurts: Brutal honesty is an excellent way to get over a breakup. Face the harsh reality – make yourself do it. It is like “ripping off a Band-Aid.” It is hurtful. It is hard. It is horrible. It works, though.
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